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Mildred Loving’s Statement Delivered on Loving Day

by Saboma on Mar.12, 2010

Mildred Loving released a public announcement in a public delivery address on the 40th anniversary of the ruling in Loving v Virginia, June 12, 2007. Her statement is below.

Loving for All

By Mildred Loving*
Prepared for Delivery on June 12, 2007,
The 40th Anniversary of the Loving vs. Virginia Announcement

When my late husband, Richard, and I got married in Washington, DC in 1958, it wasn’t to make a political statement or start a fight. We were in love, and we wanted to be married.

We didn’t get married in Washington because we wanted to marry there. We did it there because the government wouldn’t allow us to marry back home in Virginia where we grew up, where we met, where we fell in love, and where we wanted to be together and build our family. You see, I am a woman of color and Richard was white, and at that time people believed it was okay to keep us from marrying because of their ideas of who should marry whom.

When Richard and I came back to our home in Virginia, happily married, we had no intention of battling over the law. We made a commitment to each other in our love and lives, and now had the legal commitment, called marriage, to match. Isn’t that what marriage is?

Not long after our wedding, we were awakened in the middle of the night in our own bedroom by deputy sheriffs and actually arrested for the “crime” of marrying the wrong kind of person. Our marriage certificate was hanging on the wall above the bed.

The state prosecuted Richard and me, and after we were found guilty, the judge declared:

“Almighty God created the races white, black, yellow, malay and red, and he placed them on separate continents. And but for the interference with his arrangement there would be no cause for such marriages. The fact that he separated the races shows that he did not intend for the races to mix.” He sentenced us to a year in prison, but offered to suspend the sentence if we left our home in Virginia for 25 years exile.

We left, and got a lawyer. Richard and I had to fight, but still were not fighting for a cause. We were fighting for our love.

Though it turned out we had to fight, happily Richard and I didn’t have to fight alone.

Thanks to groups like the ACLU and the NAACP Legal Defense & Education Fund, and so many good people around the country willing to speak up, we took our case for the freedom to marry all the way to the U.S. Supreme Court. And on June 12, 1967, the Supreme Court ruled unanimously that, “The freedom to marry has long been recognized as one of the vital personal rights essential to the orderly pursuit of happiness by free men,” a “basic civil right.”

My generation was bitterly divided over something that should have been so clear and right. The majority believed that what the judge said, that it was God’s plan to keep people apart, and that government should discriminate against people in love. But I have lived long enough now to see big changes. The older generation’s fears and prejudices have given way, and today’s young people realize that if someone loves someone they have a right to marry.

Surrounded as I am now by wonderful children and grandchildren, not a day goes by that I don’t think of Richard and our love, our right to marry, and how much it meant to me to have that freedom to marry the person precious to me, even if others thought he was the “wrong kind of person” for me to marry. I believe all Americans, no matter their race, no matter their sex, no matter their sexual orientation, should have that same freedom to marry. Government has no business imposing some people’s religious beliefs over others. Especially if it denies people’s civil rights.

I am still not a political person, but I am proud that Richard’s and my name is on a court case that can help reinforce the love, the commitment, the fairness, and the family that so many people, black or white, young or old, gay or straight seek in life. I support the freedom to marry for all. That’s what Loving, and loving, are all about.

Originally posted 2007-06-15 06:34:00. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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Roger Ebert: “I was Hardy to Siskel’s Laurel”

by Saboma on Mar.08, 2010

Oliver Hardy died today in 1965. I was Hardy to Siskel’s Laurel, as you can see here.”
siskel and hardy1 Roger Ebert: I was Hardy to Siskels Laurel

“Just how cool is that?”

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Meet Dr Thomas Szasz

by Saboma on Mar.01, 2010

I’m greatly impressed with Dr Szasz, psychiatrist and academic. I enjoy his point by point logic in his argumentation regarding mental illness. On the same note, there is a difference between behaviors and misbehaviors. Both are choices and not related to disease. Each one is learned and what is learned can be unlearned. On the other hand, disease is a physical disorder. Disease is pathology; and, pathology is the scientific study of the nature of disease, its causes, its processes, its development, and its consequences.

“His title was not hyperbole. “Psychiatry is conventionally defined as a medical specialty concerned with the diagnosis and treatment of mental diseases,” he wrote. “I submit that this definition, which is still widely accepted, places psychiatry in the company of alchemy and astrology and commits it to the category of pseudoscience. The reason for this is that there is no such thing as ‘mental illness.’” Szasz’s attack targeted the cornerstone of modern American psychiatry: the marriage of mind and molecule, the notion that behavior can safely be classified as “sickness” and that the mind can safely be “treated” just like any other organ. Jerry Oliver, New Atlantis

The Myth of Mental Illness provides sound argument point by point with substantiated medical truths. Although as human beings there are many of us who have living problems. The problems aren’t necessarily mental health or brain disease issues. Problems experienced in life are arduous ‘living problems’ that most of us endure at one time or another, believe it or not. And as Dr. Szasz claims, it’s “a part of the vicissitudes of life.”

Related:
Prominent Psychiatrists Admits Psych Diagnosis Not Based on Science
Just Say Know

A note:
Just for posterity sake, I’m not into Scientology nor am I actively employed in the mental health field. I had read this paper years ago and was greatly impressed with it then as I am still impressed with it still today. Actually, I’m impressed with Dr Szasz and how he delivers his point by point logic and sound reasoning.

Originally posted 2008-02-02 17:09:00. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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Faces In The Street – by Pip Wilson

by Saboma on Mar.01, 2010

Pip Wilson, author of his latest novel, ‘Faces in the Street’, has provided special permission to print out and read ‘Faces’ as a gift to our readers here at Maryannaville. I’ve personally read it and was enthralled with its richness in historical facts. The book is packed with history untold before and written in a delightful manner that grabs a reader’s pique. History buffs will not want to set the book down once started. It may be downloaded free at http://www.boilingbilly.com/faces_in_the_street.pdf — 2.13 Mb.

Pip also mentioned, “What I’m sending you is in PDF form, which to me is rather like reading a brick, but you might like a copy anyway. Some people say I’m mad to give it away. I disagree.

The book is about Australia’s most famous writer, Henry Lawson, his mother Louisa Lawson (‘Mother of Women’s Suffrage’), their radical and bohemian associates — terrorists, anarchists and seditionists, and Henry’s love affairs. It’s not what you might think.

The reviews are excellent — see http://www.lulu.com/content/446062 — even from the USA and Ireland, but the interest from Australian publishers is non-existent so far. It’s been suggested that the connection between an Aussie ‘icon’ and terrorism is too scary for them.

Don’t worry about copyright; if you wish to pass it on to anyone, feel free. In fact, I encourage it, as it was written to be read and I think word-of-mouth will help this book get published. Please send this far and wide to friends and email lists. The more, the better. Much appreciated.

Harry+Lawson Faces In The Street   by Pip Wilson

More info is at http://www.boilingbilly.com/ , so I invite you to check it out. I have self-published but am looking for a publisher. The Sydney Morning Herald will be publishing my 2,000-word essay based on the premises of the book, in the big Saturday ‘Spectrum’ section, probably in early January. In Late January, ‘Perspective’ on ABC Radio National will feature me speaking nationally on this topic, so there seems to be some interest out there. However, the goal now is to convince the literary agents and publishers. So, please pass it on! And any suggestions will be welcome.

Merry Christmas and a wonderful New Year

Originally posted 2006-12-23 14:54:00. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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‘Noah’s Ark’ of 5,000 rare animals found floating off the coast of China

by Saboma on Mar.01, 2010

Cargo of abandoned vessel destined for restaurants illegal trade drives species closer to extinction

Endangered, hunted, smuggled and now abandoned, 5,000 of the world’s rarest animals have been found drifting in a deserted boat near the coast of China.

The pangolins, Asian giant turtles and lizards were crushed inside crates on a rickety wooden vessel that had lost engine power off Qingzhou island in the southern province of Guangdong. Most were alive, though the cargo also contained 21 bear paws wrapped in newspaper.

The Guardian

Originally posted 2007-06-04 09:25:00. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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Music Monday: I hate myself for loving you

by Saboma on Mar.01, 2010

Check out 3 year old Howard Wong on the drums. The kiddo is right in the pocket, both rhythmically and conceptually. He also has the spark that all musicians want surging through them when it comes to playing music; moreover,  the kiddo didn’t miss a beat even when he flubbed control of the sticks. And, get a load of his facial expressions!  He’s having the time of his life and giving everything he has before his audience members.

Getters generally don’t get happiness; givers get it. You simply give to others a bit of yourself, a thoughtful act, a helpful idea, a word of appreciation, a lift over a rough spot, a sense of understanding, a timely suggestion. You take something out of your mind, garnished in kindness out of your heart, and put it into the other fellow’s mind and heart.
*Charles H. Burr

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Ride On, Patriot Guard Riders

by Saboma on Feb.28, 2010

Watch this video See for yourself the inane belief of today’s modern Christian belief and practice. It is not much difference than the Salem Witch Trials.

Sean Hannity and Alan Colmes interview Shirley Phelps Roper, whose father is the idiot who organizes protests at funerals of soldiers. This is one of the few times that the conservative Hannity and liberal Colmes agree that Roper is an ungrateful nut who has no appreciation for the brave men and women in the military fighting for our country.

If you see a member of the Patriot Guard Riders, a group of motorcyclists and veterans that disrupts the anti-military protesters, thank them. And as always, support our troops. They’re the ones who sacrifice everything so that you and I can have freedom, even for those like Shirley Phelps Roper.

Originally posted 2006-05-31 17:28:00. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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Wash your hands real good

by Saboma on Feb.20, 2010

A crusty old biker out on a long summer ride in the country pulls up to a tavern in the middle of nowhere, parked his bike and walked inside. As he passed through the swinging doors, he saw a sign hanging over the bar:

COLD BEER : $2.00full throttle saloon sign 188x300 Wash your hands real good
HAMBURGER : $2.25
CHEESEBURGER : $2.50
CHICKEN SANDWICH : $3.50
HAND JOB : $50.00

Checking his wallet to be sure he had enough money, the ole’ biker walked up to the bar and beckoned the attractive female bartender who at the time was busy serving drinks to a couple of sun-wrinkled farmers. Wiping her hands on the bar towel, her eyes were direct as she gracefully glided behind the bar to the ole biker.

“Yes,” she inquired with a wide, knowing smile, “may I help you?” The ole biker leaned over the bar and asked, “I was wondering young lady,” he whispered, “are you the one who gives the hand-jobs?”

She looked into his eyes with a wide smile and purred, “Why yes, yes, I sure am”. The ole’ biker leaned closer and into her left ear whispered softly, “Well, wash your hands real good; I want a cheeseburger.”

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Choctaw philanthropy during Irish Potato Famine

by Saboma on Feb.17, 2010

Today according to Australian Eastern Standard Time when this item was posted
choctaw eagle dance cr Choctaw philanthropy during Irish Potato Famine1847 USA: The Arkansas Intellegencer newspaper reported that Choctaw Indians, on learning of the Irish Potato Famine, sent $710 to a famine relief fund in Ireland.

On May 23, 1995, Mary Robinson, the then President of Ireland, visited the Choctaw Nation to convey her nation’s thanks for this act of generosity from the Choctaws. President Robinson, who had been made a Chief of the Choctaw Nation, spoke to the Choctaw people in their native language, “Chahta I yakne ala li kut na sa yukpa.” Then she translated, “I am glad to have come to Choctaw Country.”

President Robinson added: “I believe that we have in common that bond of humanity and it should be an additional reason why we should particularly reach out now to countries who suffer from poverty and hunger. I think it is very important that we should try to give leadership in that and that we try to encourage others to understand that there are people today who need the support that the Choctaw Nation gave 150 years ago to the Irish people.”

Celtic dancers danced with Choctaw dancers during the ceremony.

The Choctaw tribe had had its own tragedy not long before its generous gift to the starving Irish: Indian removal. Read more at: Trail of Tears in the Book of Days (1838)
Pictured above: Choctaw Eagle Dance, by George Catlin, circa 1845 – 1848

Related:
Choctaw blood, Choctaw Spirit

Originally posted 2008-04-02 17:03:00. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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Ngiculela – Es Una Historia – I am Singing

by Saboma on Feb.15, 2010

Only those who truly love and who are truly strong can sustain their lives as a dream. You dwell in your own enchantment. Life throws stones at you, but your love and your dream change those stones into the flowers of discovery. Even if you lose, or are defeated by things, your triumph will always be exemplary. And if no one knows it, then there are places that do. People like you enrich the dreams of the worlds, and it is dreams that create history. People like you are unknowing transformers of things, protected by your own fairy-tale, by love.

*Ben Okri

Stevie Wonder’s 1976 album, “Songs in the Key of Life,” was the last of five consecutive albums widely hailed as his classic period. Songs in the Key of Life became among the best-selling and most critically acclaimed album of his career. Stevie has enriched the music world  since the 70s. Where he lacks in sight, his visions come from within his heart felt love songs in every sense of the word’s meanings and understandings.

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