Comments on: For those who believe they need to be married, take a gander http://www.maryannaville.com/for-those-who-believe-they-need-to-be-married-take-a-gander/ Creationists believe they never evolved; I believe they are correct. Mon, 30 Jan 2012 09:42:32 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Saboma http://www.maryannaville.com/for-those-who-believe-they-need-to-be-married-take-a-gander/comment-page-1/#comment-4318 Saboma Sun, 18 Nov 2007 09:58:00 +0000 http://www.maryannaville.com/for-those-who-believe-they-need-to-be-married-take-a-gander/#comment-4318 Git on, RR! Of course it makes sense. I mean like who else can qualify it but you. You have experience and you're not bitter about it. It just is what it is. Things happen that will either make us or break us. But you know what? As long as we're doing what's right for ourselves, the rest will take care of itself.<br/><br/><b>^5!</b><br/>Thanks, Big Guy.<br/><b>~:o)</b> Git on, RR! Of course it makes sense. I mean like who else can qualify it but you. You have experience and you’re not bitter about it. It just is what it is. Things happen that will either make us or break us. But you know what? As long as we’re doing what’s right for ourselves, the rest will take care of itself.

^5!
Thanks, Big Guy.
~:o)

]]> By: reasonable robinson http://www.maryannaville.com/for-those-who-believe-they-need-to-be-married-take-a-gander/comment-page-1/#comment-4317 reasonable robinson Sun, 18 Nov 2007 09:48:00 +0000 http://www.maryannaville.com/for-those-who-believe-they-need-to-be-married-take-a-gander/#comment-4317 What qualifies me to comment? Well I was married for 10 years, divorced (not good!) and now with one of the best girls in the world. Totally with you on this...Fols seem to focus on the Wedding not the marriage, the party not the process and commitment. At my wedding the vicar said marriage is like a garden it needs tending every day otherwise the weeds grow....And if they do well, there are two of you in the garden!...<br/><br/>If I learned anything from the experience it relates to 'common mindsets..I know they can change over time, but even that is a 'mindset' that both need to be aware of of. Sometimes we 'connect' with people for only a short time and if we 'marry' at the point then we run the risk of the weeds growing...<br/><br/>Hope this makes sense...<br/>RR What qualifies me to comment? Well I was married for 10 years, divorced (not good!) and now with one of the best girls in the world. Totally with you on this…Fols seem to focus on the Wedding not the marriage, the party not the process and commitment. At my wedding the vicar said marriage is like a garden it needs tending every day otherwise the weeds grow….And if they do well, there are two of you in the garden!…

If I learned anything from the experience it relates to ‘common mindsets..I know they can change over time, but even that is a ‘mindset’ that both need to be aware of of. Sometimes we ‘connect’ with people for only a short time and if we ‘marry’ at the point then we run the risk of the weeds growing…

Hope this makes sense…
RR

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