“A man who is unconscious of himself acts in a blind, instinctive way and is in addition fooled by all the illusions that arise when he sees everything that he is not conscious of in himself coming to meet him from outside as projections upon his neighbour.”
*Carl Jung
In Robert Bly’s book, The Shadow, the subtitled chapter, “The Long Bag We Drag Behind Us,” Bly supplies three metaphors. Each one takes a look at how we hide ourselves and the elements of our inherent energy is stored as learned repressed energy.
Firstly, there is the bag in which we stuff the parts of ourselves that individuals, communities, and nations reject. Secondly, there is the film can. We capture, compress, and edit negative stereotypes that enable us to cope with our anger. Thirdly, Bly takes a look at the term, projection. When we project our thoughts onto others and, we are all guilty of doing this, we give away parts of ourselves or play them out in the psyches of individuals or groups rather than in ourselves. The larger the bag we have, the less passionate, the less engaged, and less real we are. By reincorporating and reclaiming the shadow material in the bag, we become enlightened to the wisdom within us. By engaging with the world, we learn that what we see in our movies is not real. The connection with the shadow enables us to reclaim what we have projected unto others. This is our homework, if you will. In more modernized terms, it is referred to as “the journey.” The bottom line is that the story we have in us is one that has been prescribed by our soul. The journey itself is what each brave journeyer will find or discover about him or herself. Actively reading between the lines provides the authentically genuine self.
“Anything that is learned can also be unlearned” but it takes a conscientious effort. In order to achieve this goal we must become consciously aware of who we are and the elements that have shaped our present thoughts and ideologies. Claiming the shadows that lie deep within paradoxically empowers and releases us to be who we were born to be versus a sense of continuously living in self defeat due to the false accumulation of pleasing significant others in our lives. Additionally, learn more about Abraham Maslow‘s 1943 paper, “Theory of Human Motivation.” Conclusively, he developed the concept, Maslow’s Triangle aka Maslow’s ‘Hierarchy of Needs.’
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“All human beings are out of their fucking minds— Screwballs— Every single one of them.”
*Dr. Albert Ellis
Originally posted 2008-07-02 10:11:00. Republished by Blog Post Promoter